19 thoughts on “77. Life

    • This is comment for: Forgiveness or Revenge ?

      I am sorry for my bad English.
      1. Revenge or forgiveness? I choose forgiveness. My reason: Revenge will bear grudges that will never end. The world is a gathering place for all that is good and bad. The world is a place to filter the good and bad, in order to achieve nirvana / heaven.

      2. Injustice and occupation. I believe, that the crime, (including injustices, crimes against humanity and occupation), should not be confronted with the crime. We must fight to be a part of pressure group, like you, to the government and the world, to make a fair law enforcement, for the people and the government officials themselves.

      3. Elisabeth Kubler-Ross. Ask her why people applying double standards in his life? Why should we be a Hitler in a condition, and we forbid anyone to be a Hitler? Why do we always look for justification of the evil that we make? And why, in other circumstances, we find no justification to be Mother Theresa?.

      4. Definitely True Knowledge: Now, parents, in family-based, are too busy to teach their children behavioral science. Unfortunately, if the parents are less educated and behave bad behavior! I realized this, I did not have the power to change human behavior, I’m just trying, to make behavioral science more simple, and pass it through my blog.

      5. About you: You are a great lady, sensitive, and highly helper. If there are no more people like you in the family, what will become of the country and the world? πŸ™‚

    • This is a good one from http://aboomersvoice.wordpress.com/2013/01/05/forgiveness-or-revenge/#comment-250

      aboomersvoice says:
      January 6, 2013 at 6:07 am

      Dear Hilal,
      Thank you for your well thought out response. Your English is better than you think.I agree with every point you made. When you’re in the middle of an emotional upheaval, sometimes, logic seems miles away. Forgiveness is always better.
      I don’t intellectually believe in fighting a crime with a crime. We had a terrible shooting in the U.S. of 20 children and 6 teachers, a week before Christmas. You probably heard about it. It was one of many, over the past 6 months.
      The gun organizations tell us to get more guns to defend ourselves. I say that is craziness and will only make matters worse. And yes, the best way to bring justice, is to have a loud voice to make change.
      Elisabeth died several years ago, but what she meant was that people are flawed. And although we have that dark side, rage, like a Hitler, we do not have to be a Hitler or act on our rage or irrational injustice.. So, I ask you, what do you do with all the anger towards anyone, who has inflicted such pain and torture ?
      Thank you for your last statement. it is easy to forget the light, the caring, the compassionate heart, most of us carry, when hearing of such horrific torture.
      You have reminded me, that although I am outraged, we need laws, reform and awareness to bring change. God Bless. I welcome your response. Thank you and please come back. Your kind words have helped.

      My comment:
      Dear Aboomersvoice.
      1. I believe, that you are in a little group of good people, who have a clean spirit, and Witnessed the crime with heart devastated.

      2. Weapons. There is no valid research, whether in the country whose people are free to have guns and who does not, crime in that country more or less. In my country, people who have guns, can be punished. However, crimes against humanity, is still there.

      3. A loud voice to make change. People think only of their generation. In fact, generations ago, better than our generation and future generations after us, will be the generation that is worse than our generation. A loud voice to make change, can only hamper acceleration and the collapse of the world’s. Religion says: armageddon. I honor you for the awareness you have.

      4. Crime. If we are talking about a crime, certainly not independent of motive. This is roughly motif:
      a. Human crimes against humanity.
      Various motives. Victim: a little. For example, when we talk about students. Few in number of victims, but very large in size of crimes.
      b. Group crimes against humanity.
      Motive more specific. The victim: a bit much. For example, a criminal group.
      c. State crimes against the people.
      Victim: a lot. As in the Killing Fields movie .
      d. Super Power State crimes against humanity.
      Previously, political motives. For example, when we talk about Hitler, Germany Uber Alles. Now, the economic motive. Citizens in countries rich in natural resources, gold, platinum, nuclear minerals, and especially oil, will become an arena of violence and war, even sadder unrest and civil war!. You know, the oil producing countries, people will not be able to live in peace and love. Thousands of women were crying every day, lost children and husbands, due to bombings and shootings, to the point they do not know! You know, who’s taking advantage!

      5 Anger.
      The way I deal with anger is: there should be no danger! If I get angry in a standing position, I would sit down, if still angry, I would be lying, if still angry too, I will pray. Why pray will extinguish the anger? Because when I pray, will create awareness, that many of the mistakes and evil that I made , and God forgives. I would be embarrassed if I do not forgive someone …..

      6. You.
      People like you will feel lonely, because few only people have that one idea with you. People around you will see you as a strange person. Do not be discouraged. Actually you are very blessed!

      7. God Bless You….. πŸ™‚

  1. petit4chocolatier says:

    I wish you and your loved ones success, rewards, joy, happiness, and good health in 2013!!
    Happy New Year πŸ™‚

  2. And to you too…. :). I understand you are a kind woman, from what you write on your blog. I know, if anyone likes to share food and knowledge, he will be awarded with good behavior and prosperity …. May you get everything you want in 2013 …. πŸ™‚

  3. Thanks for your continued support and kind words. Much appreciated. All the best to you in the new year. It takes people like you who think first and then act with the intent on making the world a better place to live for everybody, to make it happen.

    • This is my comment for: http://babyboomerwrites.wordpress.com/2013/01/05/the-united-states-of-america-a-toddler/#comment-216

      Very coincidentally, I discussed this issue in my post at: https://hilalachmar.wordpress.com/2013/01/04/77-life-with-powerful/, about my opinions and commen for http://aboomersvoice.wordpress .com/2013/01/05/forgiveness-or-revenge / # comment-238.

      I thought, about shooting, guns, murder and crimes against humanity in this post, a comment that I will make is the same comments on the 2 links above.

      You a detailed, BABYBOOMER johanna. Keep telling the truth, although hard …. πŸ™‚

      It is not easyt o make the world a better place to live for everyone, to make it happen. . We face a great power that does not want people prosper, they want only their group they are rich.. As the strength of the economy, politics, culture, justice and information are not balanced between the rich and the poor, between countries underdeveloped, developing and developed countries, between workers and employers, and the grand design of the rich who control the world economy, and the poor who earns just to live. It is an uphill battle Johanna, as I said above, let us keep saying that right is right, and wrong is wrong, even though bitter and heavy …. Johanna I enjoyed reading your blog …. πŸ™‚

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